Islam protects the breastfeeding relationship by providing rights and provisions that ensure the mother and child attain optimal benefits. Here is a small list of examples that make breastfeeding easier and more achievable:
- Breastfeeding is the right of the mother. If she is willing no one can keep her from doing it.
- Breastmilk is the birthright of a child.
- As a part of marriage, husbands provide emotional, moral, physical and financial support.
- After birth, women are given a generous 40/60 day (depending on madhab) maximum resting period while she is still bleeding (nifas). During this time she is not obligated to fast or pray (Sunnipath).
- Sexual intercourse with one’s husband is not allowed while a woman is bleeding (nifas) after childbirth.
- With a valid excuse, breastfeeding women can delay their fasts and make them up at a later time.
- Children must honor their parents as mentioned in the translation of Surah Luqman verse 14, “And We have enjoined on man to be dutiful and good to his parents. His mother bore him in weakness and hardship, and his weaning is in two years. Give thanks to Me and to your parents; unto Me is the final destination”
The following are derived from Surah Al-Baqarah Verse 233:
- The recommended full term of breastfeeding is 2 years. This is the perfect amount of time because there are many benefits (please refer to this post).
- Breastfeeding does not have to be a hardship. No one can force a woman to breastfeed.mm
- Weaning early is permissible if a mother and father wish to do so.
- If the parents choose to, they can hire a wet-nurse to feed the baby.
- If the father/husband is not available e.g. he dies, his heir is responsible for facilitating his responsibilities for feeding the child.
- Women have no obligation to work outside the home to provide food, clothing, or maintenance of the household. In general, and within reasonable means, this is the responsibility of the husband.
- It is the father’s responsibility to find and pay for a milk-source if the mother does not breastfeed.
- If a woman is divorced and still breastfeeding she has to be maintained (or compensated) by the ex-husband.